Life After Him...Well folks I'm back after a 5-month hiatus. You see just days after creating this blog I went to black gay pride in Minneapolis. I met this guy. We sort of hit it off and dated long distance for 5 months. My pride got in the way...literally. You see, I 'm not one of those closeted black gay men you read about in the New York Times or hear whispers about on the 'Wendy Williams Show'. I'm a proud, out, happy gay man. The guy I was dating was a pretender. He was small and afraid and most of all unworthy of a confident man such as myself.

peace until next time....strong